About Lex Leostara

Image is of a right hand with pointed, black nails, holding a striped snake. The hand is nestled amongst greyscale roses, with a dark red heart with an eye in its center flanked by lavender stalks on either side, with a small, dark red crescent moon on the pointer finger.

“Master, you have stated she was so called because she inspired [humanity] with carnal desires.” Dialogue between Rabbis Abba and Simon, The Zohar: Bereshith to Lekh Lekha


Welcome to my digital cabaret!

I’m your hostess with the mostess and star of the show, Lex Leostara.

I am somewhere in my early 30s, living in a major metropolis in the United States, as a genderqueer Black woman* who has been kicking around the world of power dynamics and BDSM since slightly before I was legal. My politics & life philosophy are progressive (I’m an anarchy-leaning dirty commie) and transgressive, my creative performances saucy, and my mission in writing this blog & getting on with the get on is to shake up the world of femdom by infusing some humour, entertainment, and deadly effective, liberatory leftist praxis up in this bitch. Or, well, I will try.

This blog is dedicated to my project of reframing my own carnal desires, to chronicle my dating and relationship shenanigans, and to sharpen my sense of self as a dominant femme.

(*I am not, actually, a woman, but for political solidarity and socialisation purposes, I code as one, so I am fine with being described that way.)